Feeling maxed out? But also feeling like it’s YOUR fault you feel that way? You’re not alone!  If you're caught in a cycle of overcommitment, self-criticism, and the struggle to say "yes" when you really want to say "no," this episode is for you! Join me as I chat with Amy Wilson, who shares invaluable insights for women navigating the challenges of over-commitment. In this episode, you’ll hear:  - The best question to ask yourself to create more margin in your life (it's definitely not what you think!) - Why saying "no" is not always the  "full sentence" we're led to believe it is (and what needs to come next!) - Tactics to help when saying “no” is met with uncomfortable silence. For full show notes, including takeaways, click here.  PLUS, if you need help figuring out WHAT to put down in your life and HOW to articulate it to others, check out my audio course Declutter your Motherhood! This course offers insightful questions to help you pinpoint the sources of your overwhelm, along with compassionate scripts to explain your needs to family and friends. Now until the end of January, use the code NEWYEAR for $50 off! *** Announcement:  Sign up for my Declutter your Motherhood Audio course by the end of January to get $50 off - use code NEWYEAR.  Related Episodes:  293: Rethinking Housework // KC Davis 262: 3 Ways to Recover from Mom Burnout 211: Raising Independent Tweens & Teens // Amy & Margaret from What Fresh Hell Podcast Sponsors: BetterHelp: 3 in 30 Takeaways for Moms is sponsored by BetterHelp. Go to betterhelp.com/3in30 to get 10% off your first month of online therapy. Let’s Connect: Join me on Instagram! Get weekly-ish emails with BTS of my life Find Your Magic in Motherhood: Free 3-Day Email Course ***