Life is all about comparing, isn’t it? At least I am always looking around. I often asked myself the questions: 💫 why is this person so successful? 💫 why is he or she achieving this and that whereas I am not? 💫 Why is she having so many friends and I am not? By finding answers to these questions, it is so easy to assume that – maybe this person has just more luck, or is better than me, or to find many other excuses. It is so convenient to believe that the world is random, and unfair, and that we get what we are given. However, when I took a closer look, I realized: everything that is in my life has something to do with – guess whom – with ME. Just that you get me right: No one single circumstance makes a statement about who you are, but ongoing patterns, relationships and behaviors aren’t random. If you are constantly finding yourself in painful relationships, it is a sign that there’s something unhealed within you that needs to be addressed. By looking closer into my patterns, I detected for example that I never ever had a best friend. Even though, I always dreamt of having one best friend with whom I could go through thick and thin together. However, I always ended up in a threesome relationship feeling like the fifth wheel. Reflecting on this and getting aware of this pattern offered me the chance to change it. In this episode you will learn: 💫 Why it makes your life so much easier to believe that the world is random, and unfair, and that you get what you are given. 💫 Why everything that is in your life has something to do with you 💫 Why recognizing your patterns gives you the opportunity to transform them 💫 A powerful 4-step-process with which you can shift your patterns How you interact with people, how well you do in your career, how healthy you are, the people you spend the most time with, your financial health and so on and so forth are all things that are mostly influenced by you. Of course, there are some external factors that can hinder or support your progress. But ultimately, the work is your own. This is one of the hardest parts for us to understand and accept because we like to think that it is outside people or circumstances that are causing us to be happy or angry. So now I am challenging you: If you really want to know how well you are doing in life, take a look around you. What are the patterns that are regularly showing up your life? I have some cool news for you: In November I already shared with you that I am planning to start a Mastermind. Now it is the time of the time! The doors to register for “Your personal energy is your business card” will be open at the end of January. I am so excited about it! If you want to know more about and how knowing how to use your personal energy can influence your career and business – there will be a complementary Masterclass on Friday, January 27 at 12.00 pm CET. Send me a message right away and I forward you the link! energy-on! Cornelia. #masterclass #chargeyourbattery #quantumscience #vibration #frequency #quantumhealing #lawofreflection #changeyourmindset #kinesology #energymanagement #lifeenergy #bovis #personalenergy #personalenergymanagement #havealltheenergyyouneed #makeadifference #makeanimpact #energymanagement #energyon #businessenergy #successfullwomen #successtips #leadership #womenmindset #femalesinbusiness #womeninbusiness #femalentrepreneuerlifestyle #decisonmaking