It’s 2023. Are you still debilitated by fears and thoughts of what other people will say about you or judge you for— instead of doing what you want and going after your wildest dreams? Living unapologetically and authentically means being true to yourself, taking charge of your life and owning your power, and being brave enough to speak up about what you believe in and to do what you want without shame, guilt, or fear. Podcaster, vlogger, and influencer Say Tioco uses her voice and the power of her many platforms to advocate for sex education and sex-positivity, mental health, body positivity and women’s empowerment—unafraid of societal scorn and pressure as she shamelessly celebrates women’s sexuality. Here, she teaches us how we too, can live as fearlessly and as authentically as she does. Bring out your notebooks—and stilettos!